For the last 5 years I’ve been working on a new book about women, mental health and feminism, addressing two big questions – how are we failing women’s mental health? and what needs to change?
Over the last decade, we’ve been rightly concerned about men’s mental health. Men continue to take their own lives at 3 times the rate of women. However, women are suffering too, and the size and nature of the mental health problems and illness they experience seems to get lost beyond that desperate headline. Just as women’s physical health is much more than about our reproductive system, the mental health crisis we currently face is much more than about perinatal mental illness. Girls and women are twice as likely to experience depression and anxiety, ‘common’ mental health problems and intersectional factors such as race, LGBTQ+ and disability, along with poverty, simply magnify this difference further. Girls and women are much more likely to self-harm than boys and men, experience 2 to 3 times more post-traumatic stress disorder, more commonly have eating disorders and are 3 times more likely to be given the diagnosis of borderline personality disorder, a diagnosis that I argue (controversially still for some) should be finally consigned to the bin. Young women are presenting with more anxiety and depression than ever before and since the pandemic there has been a considerable increase in their distress and requests for help from services than have been unable to cope. Some of those who have been failed by ‘mental health care’ in our hospitals and community services are tragically dying too.
Why is this happening to women?
Has feminism failed?
I have no doubt that what happens to women in our society plays a huge part. Women not only experience more sexual abuse in childhood, but they are also subject to greater intimate partner violence as adults than are men. There is an epidemic of male violence towards women in our society and it is happening too within our mental health services. Misogyny and sexual harassment are rife. Women are more likely to be single parents, working in low paid, precarious jobs, and be forced to live on benefits. And it is clear that when women who experience trauma cannot get the understanding and help they need, they alone can become the problem, rather than helping to address the circumstances that contributed.
Women who discovered during the pandemic that their jobs were considered of less value than those of men, so they could return to full-time childcare, certainly felt failed by feminism. The silenced women in the street of Afghanistan must surely feel the same too.
In the 1980s when I started training in psychiatry there was a real resurgence in feminist interest in mental health. In ‘Out of Her Mind’ I’ve explored what has changed since then. Most recently some feminist writers have denied the reality of ‘depression’ and accused psychiatrists of simply labelling the impact that trauma has on women as mental illness. In my view that denies the reality of what many women are experiencing and can be perceived as another form of gaslighting. Instead of repeating the mantras of the past about the evils of psychiatry, even though I can and do acknowledge horrendous things have happened and still do, to women in mental health care, we must also focus down on the experiences of individual women, here and now. What needs to change?
Listening to this woman’s story has always been my starting point. What has happened to her? What is she experiencing? What does she need now to help her move forwards?
As a psychiatrist I work from a biopsychosocial perspective, and looking through biological, social and psychological lenses, identify what increased her vulnerability to mental illness, and what has stresses in her life have caused it to occur right now. However, we must add a fourth lens to these three, the political. What part does her status as a woman in this society, particularly if she is also subject to intersectional inequalities, play in her experience of emotional distress and mental illness?
What can all this tell us both about what might help her?
I began to write this book while not only researching but most of all listening to many stories from women not only in the UK but elsewhere too, as well as interviewing expert commentators. Those stories add to the many I have collected in my own mental filling cabinet during the years when I was working as a psychiatrist. The book is framed as a narrative of how I returned to my own feminist roots as a doctor who spent so much of working life both working with and trying to help women. Everyone whose story and/or opinion is included in the book gave permission and had the opportunity to comment on/make changes to text that was finally included – over 120 people. I’m immensely grateful to those who gave me their time.
You can purchase the book here its called ‘Out of Her mind’
A final note I’ve donated a large proportion of the advance I received from the publisher, Cambridge, to three charities: WISH, Self-Injury Support and Southall Black Sisters. They continue to help, daily, those who are facing sometimes incredibly challenging problems.
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