Society seems to have great difficulty in talking about the mental health of women just now. That’s problematic when the latest figures show the gender gap between men and women remains and is especially stark for young girls and women. The proportion of all those aged 16-24 with a common mental health condition rose from 17.5% in 2007 to 25.8% in 2023-4. However, the proportion of young women reporting a mental health condition is now the highest on record, at 36.1% in comparison with 16.3% of men. This news went almost unregistered by the media in Britain at the end of June.
It’s just girls isn’t it?
The authors of the latest iteration of the Adult Psychiatric Morbidity Survey (2023-4) say in their Conversation article, ‘Mental health in England really is getting worse. One in five adults are struggling.’ They also challenge the claim of overdiagnosis. “The APMS has been conducted with consistent methods over decades, using the same robust mental health assessments with large, random samples of the population. This means the results are largely not affected by changes in levels of mental health awareness or stigma, and changes in levels of diagnosis or service contact.” These data are epidemiological estimates based on official criteria. (Helpfully the survey also shows self – diagnosis rates too for comparison, and these are higher).
So what is happening for young women? And why do we seem to find it so hard to discuss it?
We know this is a worldwide phenomenon and in many countries suicide rates are increasing more rapidly in young women than in men. A recent Australian study reported an annual prevalence of nearly 50% for mental disorder in young women. Socioeconomic factors play a significant part in why both men and women develop mental health conditions – debt, unemployment, chronic ill-health, homelessness – but women are more likely than men to be in precarious work, to be reliant on benefits to survive, be single-parents and unpaid carers. Poverty matters, and if you add in intersectional factors such as being from an ethnic minority and/or LGBTQA+ risks to mental health multiply. Women are also more likely to have faced early traumas such as sexual abuse and then must deal with sexual harassment and gender-based violence in their everyday lives. If in doubt, look at the pages of Everyone’s Invited which spells out the experiences of many young women very clearly. We have rising levels of misogyny, which is rightly leading us to question what is happening to young men and what needs to change for them. But this fails to take into account what happens to those who experience and survive the damage caused by the behaviour of boys and men, and the harm this is causing to the psychosocial development of young women. Gender based violence and abuse alongside being in poverty creates a web of adversity and mental ill-health in women’s lives.
Growing up now as a girl is very different from how it was for me in the 1960s and 70s. The pressures in terms of getting an education, feeling good about your body image, navigating sex and relationships and discovering and developing an identity are considerable and amplified by social media, which I’m so relieved I never had to contend with.
Women are more often seeking help for anxiety, depression, eating disorders and self-harm but their mental health issues are not being considered through a gender specific lens. The menstrual cycle plays an important part in the mental health and well-being of young women but has been largely disregarded in the past in mental health care. We still need to know, for example, much more about the interactions between ovarian hormones and early life trauma in women. The APMS reveals that more men are getting access to care than they previously did. However, waiting times for psychological therapy remain long, the majority on those lists are women and the therapy provided will most likely not be tailored to the specific needs of women who have experienced trauma and violence. It is all too easy, as a young woman, to receive a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder when you have been subject to repeated abuse and trauma.
Is it surprising that new claimants for disability benefits in the UK are more likely to be younger, for mental health related problems and to be women? Limiting access to those benefits will increase poverty and continue the cycle of despair and adversity. Instead, we must rethink the way we support women and girls. Many will need access to a tailored, person-centred, biopsychosocial assessment, designed around their needs and preferences but its most definitely not a problem to be solved with more medication. To stem the increasing problems young women are facing demands that society recognises it, talks about it and has the political will to address the serious challenges young women currently face such as gender-based violence and misogyny. As women we are expected to not complain too much, ‘put up and shut up’ and if we do need help, ask for it ‘appropriately’ which doesn’t include harming ourselves, even though our needs often go unnoticed anyway. We often are accused of exaggerating or faking it. There is a continuing pattern of raising concerns about women’s mental health and society failing to act.
Isn’t it time we listened to young women, believed what they are telling us about their lives and talked about it rather than just let each new report drift by and disappear into the ether?
Then let’s get together and do something about it.
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