CAMHS – Patching the Soul

Society seems to have great difficulty in talking about the mental health of women just now. That’s problematic when the latest figures show the gender gap between men and women remains and is especially stark for young girls and women. The proportion of all those aged 16-24 with a common mental health condition rose from 17.5% in 2007 to 25.8% in 2023-4. However, the proportion of young women reporting a mental health condition is now the highest on record, at 36.1% in comparison with 16.3% of men. This news went almost unregistered by the media in Britain at the end of June.

It’s just girls isn’t it?

The authors of the latest iteration of the Adult Psychiatric Morbidity Survey (2023-4) say in their Conversation article, ‘Mental health in England really is getting worse. One in five adults are struggling.’ They also challenge the claim of overdiagnosis. “The APMS has been conducted with consistent methods over decades, using the same robust mental health assessments with large, random samples of the population. This means the results are largely not affected by changes in levels of mental health awareness or stigma, and changes in levels of diagnosis or service contact.” These data are epidemiological estimates based on official criteria. (Helpfully the survey also shows self – diagnosis rates too for comparison, and these are higher).

So what is happening for young women? And why do we seem to find it so hard to discuss it?

We know this is a worldwide phenomenon and in many countries suicide rates are increasing more rapidly in young women than in men. A recent Australian study reported an annual prevalence of nearly 50% for mental disorder in young women. Socioeconomic factors play a significant part in why both men and women develop mental health conditions – debt, unemployment, chronic ill-health, homelessness – but women are more likely than men to be in precarious work, to be reliant on benefits to survive, be single-parents and unpaid carers. Poverty matters, and if you add in intersectional factors such as being from an ethnic minority and/or LGBTQA+ risks to mental health multiply. Women are also more likely to have faced early traumas such as sexual abuse and then must deal with sexual harassment and gender-based violence in their everyday lives. If in doubt, look at the pages of Everyone’s Invited which spells out the experiences of many young women very clearly. We have rising levels of misogyny, which is rightly leading us to question what is happening to young men and what needs to change for them. But this fails to take into account what happens to those who experience and survive the damage caused by the behaviour of boys and men, and the harm this is causing to the psychosocial development of young women. Gender based violence and abuse alongside being in poverty creates a web of adversity and mental ill-health in women’s lives.

Growing up now as a girl is very different from how it was for me in the 1960s and 70s. The pressures in terms of getting an education, feeling good about your body image, navigating sex and relationships and discovering and developing an identity are considerable and amplified by social media, which I’m so relieved I never had to contend with.

Women are more often seeking help for anxiety, depression, eating disorders and self-harm but their mental health issues are not being considered through a gender specific lens. The menstrual cycle plays an important part in the mental health and well-being of young women but has been largely disregarded in the past in mental health care. We still need to know, for example, much more about the interactions between ovarian hormones and early life trauma in women. The APMS reveals that more men are getting access to care than they previously did. However, waiting times for psychological therapy remain long, the majority on those lists are women and the therapy provided will most likely not be tailored to the specific needs of women who have experienced trauma and violence. It is all too easy, as a young woman, to receive a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder when you have been subject to repeated abuse and trauma.

Is it surprising that new claimants for disability benefits in the UK are more likely to be younger, for mental health related problems and to be women? Limiting access to those benefits will increase poverty and continue the cycle of despair and adversity. Instead, we must rethink the way we support women and girls. Many will need access to a tailored, person-centred, biopsychosocial assessment, designed around their needs and preferences but its most definitely not a problem to be solved with more medication. To stem the increasing problems young women are facing demands that society recognises it, talks about it and has the political will to address the serious challenges young women currently face such as gender-based violence and misogyny. As women we are expected to not complain too much, ‘put up and shut up’ and if we do need help, ask for it ‘appropriately’ which doesn’t include harming ourselves, even though our needs often go unnoticed anyway. We often are accused of exaggerating or faking it. There is a continuing pattern of raising concerns about women’s mental health and society failing to act.

Isn’t it time we listened to young women, believed what they are telling us about their lives and talked about it rather than just let each new report drift by and disappear into the ether?

Then let’s get together and do something about it.

My latest book: Out of Her Mind: how we are failing women’s mental health and what must change, is on sale now.

There are some images from my six months as registrar in child psychiatry that stay with me.

It was the early 1980s and the social worker and I were visiting a young single parent living on the 9th floor of a tower block in Salford 6. She had just moved back to live with her parents after the breakdown of her relationship. As she opened the door we were greeted by her 6 year old daughter, a pretty little girl who danced towards us, twirling around in circles. Only she continued to twirl around, and around, and around the overcrowded space completely absorbed in in own world. According to her mother she spent much of the day performing an unearthly dance between the furniture and screaming loudly every time she was prevented from doing this. She had no words. I could see how much her mother and grandparents loved her, but their faces were lined with desperation. The young mother already had the air, and appearance of someone at least a decade older than her years.
“I’ve been told she’s autistic,” she said, starting to cry, “but I don’t know how to cope with her…I just can’t, and now my husband has left me.”

It wasn’t difficult to see what was needed was some intensive support for the whole family. It was then, as now, in short supply but that didn’t stop us trying to put it in place. In my time at the clinic in the old Royal Manchester Children’s Hospital in Salford (not the shiny new one at the Infirmary) I witnessed over and again the impact of serious mental health problems and difficulties on families already struggling to cope in unsuitable or substandard housing. And it reminded me, sometimes too often, of the impact that the problems of my younger brother, who developed obsessive compulsive disorder at the age of 7, had on my own parents’ physical and mental health.

As my friends will know, I’m not particularly ‘good’ with children (I have none of my own) so when I was on-call over the weekend I struggled to try and strike up conversations with silent teenagers in the paediatric ward, the day after they had taken an overdose. They usually went something like this:
‘Hello, my name is Doctor Gask. And your name is Jenny- is that right?’
Silence…no eye contact…a reluctant nod.
‘I really wanted to find out what happened to you- to see if we can help…is that okay?’
…’I suppose so.’
‘OK. So would you like to tell me what happened yesterday?’
More silence.
I soon learned, by watching the consultant I was attached to, a kind and extraordinarily astute child psychiatrist who was close to retirement, that direct questions were not the way to engage a young person in talking about their problems. If they turned up for a follow up appointment- and that often unfortunately depended on whether their parents saw the need for them to have any help, not only their own willingness to come, he would set about making a young person feel at ease, without actually appearing to make any effort at all. He would smile like a genial grandfather, and simply strike up a chat about things completely unrelated to the events that had brought them into hospital: their favourite pop stars (they were not called ‘bands’ then), hobbies, best friends and gradually build trust before moving onto the thorny question of why they had taken the tablets. After forty minutes or so he would be ready to ask: ‘So how would you like things to be different?’ followed by ‘I wonder how we can help you with that…should we try and look at that together?’

I realized quite soon into my six months working with children and young people that this wasn’t where I wanted to be for the rest of my career. I didn’t have the kind of skills and patience that the consultant had. I found it difficult to work with families where children whose apparently quite normal behavior did not meet the expectations of their parents. In particular I felt angry when parents failed to take up the offer of help because of their perception (perhaps rightly so) that we were suggesting the difficulties their children presented with had a great deal to do with their own life problems and parenting style.

However what I did learn, and has never left me, was the acute awareness of how the people I saw later in their lives with depression and anxiety, in their twenties, thirties and older, had first developed difficulties with their mental health in their youth. This was where their problems had begun.

I returned to work in Salford 20 years later and helped to set up a primary care based mental health team. Our base, at first, was in a building attached to the old Salford Royal Hospital where I had attempted and failed to strike up conversations on a Saturday morning. Only now the building, like many older hospitals, had been converted into luxury flats. As I discussed in supervision, with the Psychological Wellbeing Practitioners, the problems of the people being referred to us, I was acutely aware that the generation we had struggled to help back in the 80’s were the very people now presenting to the mental health services. What happens to us in early life- our relationships, experiences within our own families, continues to have an impact on our mental well-being for the rest of our lives.

Services for children and young people with mental health problems have never been well funded and now in the UK they have been cut more than ever before. What services do exist are withdrawn at school leaving age and very many of those who have succeeded in getting help fail to meet the ever more selective criteria of adult mental health services, unless they have been lucky enough to be seen in some of the newer services which don’t recognize this traditional cut-off point, which is completely unsupported by what we now know from research:

‘not only that adult mental health disorders are common in the population, but that most of them have their onset by adolescence. This period of life after puberty also sees a range of important organisational developments in the brain that last until the late 20s and usher in adulthood as might be defined from a developmental rather than a social or legal point of view.’

Yet this is exactly the period when adequate mental health care is perhaps most difficult to access.

I was recently asked in an interview (by Ruth Hunt) what my priority would be for funding when the new money promised for mental health care, too little once more, finally arrives. I didn’t hesitate. It has to be for children and young people, if we are going to begin to try and prevent the cycle of suffering. More families failing to cope and the next generation experiencing the same problems.
It has to be children and young people first.

My memoir about depression and Psychiatry: The Other Side of Silence is available now